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October 17, 2012
A mini manual for parents of children learning English
There is no question that parents influence the language learning of their children. The quality of parent-child interactions concerning the new language define if this influence is for better or for worse. I believe that young learners would benefit a lot if their parents were
required to take a basic intro class on how to foster and maintain curiosity,
interest, and confidence when they enrolled their children. Can you imagine that? Here is the advice I
would present in this class:
Give
simple commands
in English, as this allows children to experience success by showing they understand. Example: call
your mother please, throw me the ball, touch here, let’s go, get your cap.
Make simple
questions,
allowing the child to answer in their native language or with a single word in
English. Example: Where’s your sister? Have you finished your homework?
Are you ready?
Give
two answers in your questions, so that children can choose one. In this way, we model
the answer and help children to produce in English, as they only need to repeat
their choice. Example:
Would you like water or juice? Are you ready or not yet? Is this good or
more?
Teach
children,
instead of testing, by presenting words through gestures, context, or by
pointing for the children to discover on their own the meaning of the word. Use
cognates, which are words that are similar and have the same meaning in both
languages. Example:
Get me the jar to put the juice, please.
(pointing) You have to squeeze.
(making the gesture)
Help
children to say things in English by giving the beginning of words when they do not
remember. It's important to use this technique only when the child can complete
quickly. Example:
Parent: Co... Child: Come here
Praise when you see your child singing a song, saying
a word in English, or teaching you something related to English. Children
notice it.
Share your
favourite songs by
listening to them together. Help with the lyrics. Sing together
Instead of pointing
out directly that the child made a mistake, just rephrase using the correct
form continuing the conversation. Example: Child: I winned the game. Parent: I know, I'm happy that you won the game. Congrats!
Whenever possible, invite
and guide children to have successful interactions in English by
writing a short e-mail, recording a video, or talking through Skype.
Volunteer to have
international friends or travellers at your home, thus making English the means of communication.
Even better if these have children!
The ultimate learning
experience you can provide your child is to travel to a foreign country
where the language is spoken, as your child can be totally immersed in the
language and in the culture. Older children can benefit immensely from
participating in student exchange program or summer camps.
Last but not the
least, be in frequent contact with your child's language teacher, as this
partnership is essential for you to know about your child's feelings and emotions in the language learning process.
Avoid:
Talking only in English to your
child, if this is not your native language.
Pretending
that you do not understand the child in the native language. Of course you
understand.
Asking
questions to which you already know the answer or that make no sense to the child. Children get it very quick that you are testing and
not making a question. Example:
How old are you? What's this? (when showing a book)
Forcing children to
produce in English. This only makes them feel insecure towards the
language and makes them create a barrier to communicating in the foreign
language.
Did I forget anything you consider important? Tell
me and I will add it!
Let me know if you actually have this intro class with parents!
Send you a frog-hug!
Juan
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September 19, 2012
Play matters!
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September 18, 2012
The benefits behind learning a foreign language
I have realized that most parents and even some teachers are unaware of how young learners can benefit from learning a second language from an early age. I decided then to create this infographic (my very first one) pointing out some of these "hidden" benefits.
Here it is!
You can check the full list with all references made by Professor Paradowski by clicking here.
I used a site called Piktochart to make this infograph and it wasn't that hard.
Thanks to Ana Luiza Uribe and Vicky Loras for reviewing my drafts!
Frugs to all of you!
Juan
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June 19, 2012
Building rapport through child-led interactions
During my Master I learned about Parent-Child Interaction
Therapy, which is a therapeutic method that aims to improve the disruptive parent-child
relationships through the change of confrontational parent-child interaction
patterns. The therapeutic sessions move from child-directed interactions to
parent-directed interactions.
Here is how sessions work: a parent stays with his/her child
in a room with toys. The therapist sees them through a one-way mirror and
guides the parent through a bug that is worn. As interactions happen, the
therapist either says what the parent should say or gives the command to the
parent. In fact, the sessions are quite fun to watch when you see that at first
parents miss the opportunities and that later they rejoice when they see that
their children are getting closer to them.
I thought that the child-directed interactions were very
interesting and that they could also be applied to the teaching of English to
young children in small groups, as they nurture a space in which children are
validated and can express themselves.
These interactions can be remembered by the acronym PRIDE.
P – Praising
R – Reflecting
I – Imitating
D – Describing
E - Enthusiasm
Below I outline these:
·
Praising is
done when a teacher gives specific feedback to show children that he/she is observing,
validating, and accepting their actions.
Example: Teacher: I notice how you are using such nice manners.
I can see you are separating the pieces carefully.
·
Reflecting
is when a teacher shows that he/she has listened a student by paraphrasing
what the student has said. A comment should be added for the interaction not to
be plain echo.
Example: Student: My favorite is Play-Doh.
Teacher: Your favorite is Play-Doh. I like it too
·
Imitation
happens when the teacher does similar things to what the student is doing,
such as in their posture, language, and actions. It’s amazing how this works
and how they feel valued when we copy something they are doing. This builds a
path for them to copy us later.
·
Description
happens when the teacher narrates what the child is doing without making
any value judgement.
Example: Teacher: You are feeding the chickens.
The cat is walking around the house.
should be conveyed through intonation, volume, eye contact, and
gestures. The tone of voice
should be normal, without any type of patronizing.
Here I have selected a video that shows a PCIT session taking place. Check how the imitation builds amazing rapport!
Let me know how you liked it and how it can be applied to your classes.
I'd love to hear from you, as it motivates me to write more often and to interact with other educators.
I send you a big hug from Toronto,
Juan
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I believe that these interactions can be of use to language teachers
in the first moments of classes and in situations in which rapport has been
broken. These child-led interactions can be balanced with silence and laughter.
PCIT suggests that during the child-led interactions the
following should be avoided:
Making any questions
as these guide the play or can have embedded value judgements or hidden
commands.
Example: What do you think we should do now?
Why did you do this?
Giving direct or
indirect commands as these might be rejected by the children or imply that
the child is doing something “wrong”.
Example: Let’s color now.
You do the house and I will do the garden.
I think we should finish now.
Criticism does
not nurture rapport, as it does not value how children do things.
Example: You know that isn’t right.
Look how you can do it right.
Here I have selected a video that shows a PCIT session taking place. Check how the imitation builds amazing rapport!
Let me know how you liked it and how it can be applied to your classes.
I'd love to hear from you, as it motivates me to write more often and to interact with other educators.
I send you a big hug from Toronto,
Juan
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February 16, 2012
Teaching English to children with puppets!
Today I am talking about one of my passions: puppeteering.
I have noticed that many language teachers do not use puppets frequently in their classes. I believe this might be because they are afraid of using puppets, don't know what exactly they can do with them, or might think their students would not engage in the proposed activities. I believe everybody can use puppets with some practice. Here I share some hints on how you can bring life to your puppets!
Remember that puppeteering is an art and there isn't a right way to do it.
I'm just sharing some hints that have worked for me in my classes with both children and adults.
But before that, a little Wikipedia moment:
I have noticed that many language teachers do not use puppets frequently in their classes. I believe this might be because they are afraid of using puppets, don't know what exactly they can do with them, or might think their students would not engage in the proposed activities. I believe everybody can use puppets with some practice. Here I share some hints on how you can bring life to your puppets!
Remember that puppeteering is an art and there isn't a right way to do it.
I'm just sharing some hints that have worked for me in my classes with both children and adults.
But before that, a little Wikipedia moment:
Puppetry is a form of theatre or performance which
involves the manipulation of puppets. It is very ancient, and is believed to
have originated 30,000 years BC. Puppetry takes many forms but they all share
the process of animating inanimate performing objects. Puppetry is used in
almost all human societies both as an entertainment – in performance – and
ceremonially in rituals and celebrations such as carnivals. Most puppetry
involves storytelling.
Puppets can go from a simple string to giant craned operated dolls. Check here 32 different types of puppets that I have shared in a previous post.
· Puppets
can be held in a way that they directly face the students. Hiding your hand can
be done by using your arm, knee, a piece of cloth, or using a table. Sometimes I hide myself behind the puppet in order to hide my mouth. In this way they become more real.
· Bringing
your puppet to life can be done by the sequence of breathing, guttural sounds,
moving, talking, and dancing. A rehearsed choreography is also a good idea, as you won't need to think about the next movement when you are performing. Puppets
can also wink, snore, jump, burp, be shy, tell you a secret, have hiccups, etc. These
unexpected actions surprise the audience and add even more personality to the
puppet. A catch phrase to be frequently repeated is a delicious treat!
The presentation of the puppet is an important moment as it sets the tone for the interaction. I believe that coming with a problem to be solved is a good way to engage students. I personally avoid the "I’m Billy, I’m 5 years old" approach as it doesn’t bring a complex character and children might feel they are being patronized.
·
Props are a fantastic way to bring a plot to scene. Even a simple thing as a ball can be great fun when paired with a fork! The student’s objects can be brought to action as props that need to be used to solve problems.
Props are a fantastic way to bring a plot to scene. Even a simple thing as a ball can be great fun when paired with a fork! The student’s objects can be brought to action as props that need to be used to solve problems.
· Puppets are a great resource to align creativity, inspiration, flexibility and humour in language teaching.
Here I share some ways in which teachers and students can share their class with puppets:
Here I share some ways in which teachers and students can share their class with puppets:
· Language
can be very rich in the making process as instructions involve sequences of
actions and materials. In the case of scripted plays, stories can be read, adapted,
and rehearsed.
· Puppets
do not need to necessarily speak as they can only be taken care of. Here teachers
and the students give commands and exchange advice about what should be done to
guarantee the well being of the puppet.
· Puppets
can read aloud, retell stories, tell their versions, and give their opinion of
recent events. Puppets can also play games, tell jokes, try tonguetwisters,
lipsynch to a song, and present the news. They sometimes also refilm ads or
great movie classics.
Creating
sketches with the raffling of characters, places, and situations is an
effective way to mix creativity with language. Students are usually very proud
of their memorable creations and watching their presentation is definitely a pleasure.The triangle is a theatrical technique in which the puppet says something strange, the manipulator looks at the puppet, the audience, and finally at the puppet again. It can also be reversed.
· Puppets
can also be used to practice grammar rules in a more lighthearted way, to review
content with humor and to go back to challenging grammatical points that are explained by the puppet or to the puppet.
· Puppets
can help students to give feedback and disclose their feelings more openly
about how the see their development and their relationship with the language. Teachers can use puppets to give advice on how to learn or to express concerns about discipline.
· Last
but not least, puppets can be used to show students different realities, as
things students like doing, their environments, or even be taken in adventures
as when Buddy went ballooning:
February 02, 2012
What exactly happens during play?
What exactly happens during play?
Play is not a break from learning.
It’s
the way young children learn.
If you observe children playing and take lots of notes on what exactly they are doing you might come up with the competences below that children develop organically while
playing:
Describe
Communicate Identify Listen Order
Match Classify Combine
Compare Criticize Evaluate Explain Define Collect Choose Change Design Question Organize Integrate Simplify Understand Penalize
Definition of a
situation: Let´s play house.
Assignment of roles:
I´ll be the daddy and you will be the son.
Defining location:
This is the kitchen.
Specifying the action
plan: I´ll fix supper and you wait.
Assigning props:
This is my pan.
Correcting operating
procedures and fixing the script: Daddy doesn´t cook like this.
Directing other´s
performance: This is the way to do it.
Invoking rules
related to real X pretend context: You don´t really have to do it.
Termination/
transition: Okay, supper finished.
Commenting
interpersonal climate: We are playing, so we are friends, right?
A big frog-hug,
Juan
November 24, 2011
Understanding and nurturing play
I will be writing the next posts about a subject that fascinates me: play.
Play also nurtures the development of children's language skills, as they experiment with words, sentences, and structures during play to express their thoughts and ideas, to solve problems and to communicate their desires. As children become more sophisticated in their play skills, their language also becomes equally sophisticated. Last, play provides opportunity for adults to share the children´s inner worlds on the children’s terms and pace.
" We don’t stop playing because we grow old;
we grow old because we stop playing.”
George Bernard Shaw
George Bernard Shaw
Play is the kind of thing we might take for granted, thinking we know what it is, until we have to define and explain it. Much harder it is to understand what exactly happens in the heads of children during this fascinating linguistic, cognitive, social, and affective activity that unfortunately has been losing space in children’s agendas. Here I share some of my findings:
Playing is essential for children as it fulfills many of their developmental needs: to learn, to socialize, to create, to feel challenged, to calm themselves and focus, to compete and cooperate, to enjoy themselves and others, and finally to have fun. When at play children actively use their hands, head and heart.
Play allows children to learn about themselves, others and their environment. Play relates to and relies upon past and future experiences , as children actively make models of the world, when they repeat situations over and over to investigate and test their ideas.
Play only occurs when children do not feel anxious or threatened, and after they have become familiar and have explored the object they will play with. During play, children focus not on what objects can do, but on what they can do with them. Children can’t be forced to play and neither do they need to be taught to do so.
Play also nurtures the development of children's language skills, as they experiment with words, sentences, and structures during play to express their thoughts and ideas, to solve problems and to communicate their desires. As children become more sophisticated in their play skills, their language also becomes equally sophisticated. Last, play provides opportunity for adults to share the children´s inner worlds on the children’s terms and pace.
Here are some tips that I have adapted from the Action Alliance for Children (www. 4children.org) for nurturing play with your students and children:
Let children master toys by making materials available for frequent and longer periods of time.
Provide playthings that kids can use in a variety of ways: blocks, paper and crayons, dolls and toy animals, balls, playdough, etc. The simpler the toy, the more complex the play.
Encourage kids to play with ordinary household objects like pots and pans and outdoor materials like sticks and grass.
Provide simple playthings that encourage children to be active and use their imaginations, not to watch while the toy does tricks.
Create an environment where children feel safe to try new things and where they feel they have the support of adults. Model playing and let them come with their ways.
Respond to play: A teacher sees a child playing and builds vocabulary by providing new words, naming things, narrating what they are doing.
Extend play: a teacher observes a child pretending a chair is a car and “driving.” She encourages imagination by asking “Where are you going? What do you see along the way?”
Guide play: One week a teacher turns the dress-up area into a costume library. Children practice language and social skills by acting out different roles.
Observe the child’s activities: Seeing a child line up toy dinosaurs by size shows her understanding of size comparisons and putting things in order. The child might also be replicating school’s entrance or any situation in which he/she has experienced being in line.
Take photos and keep some of their toys: A series of photos of a child’s block structures over time shows that she is learning more about spatial relations. It’s also nice to build memory and share it with children later in life. I cherish the pictures that were taken with me and my toys and I wish I had some of them to share with my children.
In the next post I will investigate types of play, what happens during play and how children know that someone is playing with them. See you soon!
A big frog-hug,
Juan
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October 19, 2011
Proactive discipline management
They contradict their parents, gobble their food, and tyrannize their teachers.
Socrates (469 BC-399 BC)
As Socrates noticed in the quote above, our ways of involving children have not been effective for some time. Student indiscipline has been a major challenge as a great number of schools still struggle in their attempt to convince children to comply with their educational systems. I assume here that the indiscipline problem might stem in part from our focus on making students adapt to our teaching, instead of teachers adapting in ways that promote student learning.
Fortunately, new behavioral approaches have focused on using indiscipline prevention rather reaction to solve student misbehavior. These new approaches advocate for a substitution of the old ways of strict rules, authority and coercion by the new ways of awareness, sensitivity, and rapport.
Proactive discipline approaches manipulate the physical, social, and emotional aspects of the learning environment to avoid indiscipline from happening. Below I present the proactive discipline management approaches of antecedent strategies, ecologic factors, and behavioral rapport.
The antecedent strategies approach (Kern & Clemens, 2007) assumes that problems result from a mismatch between the individual’s strengths, skills or preferences and the environment. Misbehavior can be reduced or eliminated by redesigning the individual’s learning environment. This proactive redesign includes:
- setting clear rules and expectations,
- building predictability in the environment,
- creating activities that include students’ interests,
- having a brisk pace of instruction,
- allowing opportunities for students to respond,
- increasing specific praise for appropriate behavior,
- scheduling attention and support for some students,
- anticipating or scaffolding difficult situations,
- intercalating easy and difficult tasks,
- noticing and eliminating triggers that precede problematic behavior,
- proactively investing in modifications guided to promote student engagement,
- allowing students to make choices on how they would like to learn.
The ecologic factors approach (Carter & Driscoll, 2007) assumes that internal physical and psychological states of students may be possible roots of misbehavior. Indiscipline can be seen here as a means of communicating unsatisfied and pressing needs. The proactive prevention includes addressing the ecological variables we can change and showing sensitivity to the ones we have no control. Below I list ecological factors that can be causes of misbehavior:
- nutrition: thirst, hunger, heavy meals, nutritional diet, irregular meals,
- sleep hygiene: fatigue, sleep duration, sleep schedule, sleep disturbances,
- physical comfort: pain (headache, toothache, earache, nausea), allergies, excessive noise, temperature, light,
- emotional comfort: absence of friendship or support networks, conflict with peers (e.g., bullying), little access to choice or control, few success experiences,
- familial concerns (family conflict, neglect, excessive or inconsistent discipline, unresponsive parenting, parental isolation or depression),
- activity level - over- and under-stimulation, lack of meaningful or enjoyable school and after-school activities.
- using physical proximity and touch,
- interacting with warmth, sensitivity and empathy,
- validating them with kind looks,
- talking about the child’s interests,
- demonstrating interest in students’ comments and lives,
- sharing facts about our lives,
- praising good behavior,
- using humor and having playful conversations,
- acting as a partner rather than as an authority figure,
- taking a few minutes, particularly with those experiencing difficulties.
Interestingly, the best moment to invest in the prevention of indiscipline through proactive strategies is when things are fine in the classroom. In a paradigm shift, discipline management ceases being an arm wrestle and becomes more of a chess game, in which teachers see students holistically and focus on the cognitive, social and emotional aspects of learning.
Share these proactive strategies with other teachers!
Together we can change the overall experience of teaching and learning!
A frog-hug,
Here are the references:
Carter, M. & Driscoll, C. (2007). A conceptual examination of setting events. Education Psychology,
27 (5), 655-673.
Ducharme, J. M., & Harris, K. (2005). Errorless embedding for children with conduct difficulties:
Rapport-based success-focused intervention in the classroom. Behavior Therapy, 36, 213-
222.
Kern, L., & Clemens, N.H. (2007). Antecedents strategies to promote appropriate classroom behavior.
Psychology in the Schools, 44(1), 65-75.
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